Moms...you need to read this
/One of my clients works herself to the bone.
She works 50+ hours a week…
...and is up, working late into the night, sleeping next to her laptop...
...all so that she can provide a better life for her family and her children.
There’s a deeper reason why she works this hard, though:
it's what she saw growing up.
Her parents worked long days, hustling to take care of her and her family.
Now, decades later, here she is doing the same damn thing as an adult.
She’s unconsciously repeating this cycle.
As kids, our parents, family, and community are our role models for how to exist in this world (for better or worse).
We learn how we are supposed to be in this world — what to be stressed about, fearful of, and how much we should work — all from watching our parents, family, and community.
...that means her kids are more than likely to grow up, and overwork themselves and stress over money and work, too.
Not to mention overworking and stressing out at the cost of neglecting their bodies and well-being
I don’t know about you, but that's not what she wants for her kids.
She wants her kids to live a life of joy, take days off, and she certainly doesn’t want them to feel stressed and overwhelmed like she does.
She wants them to know that their worth is not based on what they do, or how much money they make.
She wants them to chase their dreams, and do what they love - even if its not the "smart" or "right" thing to do.
Here’s the important part every parent needs to read:
It doesn't matter how much my client tells her kids what she wants for them.
She has to show them by being that example.
Sure, she could tell her children, "Go create a life of joy!"
But when they watch her do the exact opposite every day, their brain will start to create stories that say:
“honoring my body isn’t worth the time,
pursuing my purpose is unsafe and doesn’t make enough money, and
it’s all less important than working hard at a soul-crushing job.
Because if it was the right thing to do, why wouldn’t mommy be doing it?”
Can I ask you a serious question?
What do you want for your kids?
What kind of life do you want them to lead?
Do you want them to:
Fulfill their dreams?
Follow their purpose?
Honor their intuition?
Feel less stressed and more joy?
Know that they are worthy, every minute of every day?
I promise you - it is possible to:
Be more confident
Fulfill your purpose on this earth
Rest more
Stress less
EnJOY your life
...while also being able to provide for your family.
I know, because this is the work I do with clients all of the time inside my 1:1 coaching practice.
If I’m being honest, working with parents is my most fulfilling work, because every single one of the tools and lessons I teach you…
...you get to pass along to your children, so they can feel more joy, more confidence, and more peace ... even in a white supremacist world that wants to make children of color feel small.
When you’re a parent, doing the work to get rid of imposter syndrome, hustling and grinding yourself to death, perfectionism, and all the things that keep you small, isn’t selfish at all.
It’s a gift for you and your kids,
so you can teach them the tools and resources we all wish we had decades ago.
This is leaving a legacy.
It’s a gift for them, because when you start showing up as your thriving, confident, glorious self — you’ll show them that it’s possible to lead of life of joy…
...even if you weren’t born rich, white, and with generations of privilege to help you get by.
Are you ready to be that example for your children?
If so, then we should talk about working together.
In my 1:1 coaching program, I support women and femmes of color to find more:
peace
joy
confidence
freedom
energy, and more ease.
Along the way, we’ll help you stop:
feeling like an imposter or like you’re "not enough"
struggling with perfectionism
compromising you body and mind
saying “yes" to shit you don’t want to do
overthinking everything
feeling scared to fail
avoiding speaking your truth in your business, relationships, or work
being your own worst enemy, if you’re being honest.
It’s time for you to not only change your life…
...but BE the change your kids need to see in this world.
You ready?
When you apply to work with me, I’ll map out what is in your way of feeling confident, fulfilling your purpose, and having a thriving life right now- and what you need to overcome.
This is an individualized process based on your unique circumstances (No templated shit here.)
So don’t sleep on this opportunity to get support, and finally claim the thriving life you’ve been dreaming of.
Live well,
Gigi